RETURN OF 'GREASE' DAVY JONES TALKS ABOUT THE ROAD FROM 'OLIVER!' By JOHN PAPAGEORGE Special to the Mercury News LATE last night, Davy Jones -- former tambourine-playing Monkee -- wrapped a scarf around his neck, put a baseball cap on his head and, with hands in pockets, walked from the Shubert Theatre two miles along the cold, gray snow-covered sidewalk along Chicago's Michigan Avenue to his apartment. He walks these two miles every night. No limousine, no cab. He says he needs this time to think. One night, he stopped off in a drugstore where he watched a mother violently tug her child away from a candy display. ''Whoooa. Don't pull him about,'' he commanded in a scolding tone. ''Why don't you mind your own business,'' the mother snarled. That put the five-foot tall Jones, who won over adoring teen fans with the whimsical ''Daydream Believer,'' in a nasty mood. ''Excuse me?!'' he roared. ''It is my business!'' The next night he decided to take a detour down an alley adjacent to the Chicago Theater, where Don Osmond (ne Donnie) was signing autographs after his performance in ''Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat.'' Jones, an invisible observer, smiled to himself and reflected on his 35-year career as fans rushed by, bumping into him, to meet the thirtysomething Osmond. He remembered meeting the Beatles backstage the night of their famous performance on ''The Ed Sullivan Show.'' Jones was there to perform a scene from the play ''Oliver!'' in which he originated the role of the Artful Dodger on Broadway. Jones speaks so passionately about ''Oliver!'' -- he recently returned to the play to triumphantly recreate the role of the 70-year-old Faigin -- one would think Jones wrote it . . . or lived it. ''When I see shows like 'Cats,' it leaves me wondering why theater has gone this direction,'' ponders Jones. ''When I watch made-up actors crawling ground on the stage, I wonder why I bought the ticket. It's almost circus theater -- and it's gimmicky. When I did 'Oliver' in the '60s, we had a book with words that the audience listened to, that led into songs, that guided the piece along.'' Admittedly, Jones sees his role as the wild disc jockey Vince Fontaine in the touring production of ''Grease'' -- which comes to San Francisco's Golden Gate Theatre starting Tuesday -- as a ''gimmicky'' means to attract TV-loving audiences to the theater. ''It's not a big part,'' says Jones. ''I look like the character. People who come to see the show will say, 'Hey, that's Davy Jones.' '' When Jones isn't touring, he lives in an Amish village called Beaver Town (population 850) in Pennsylvania, where he raises horses. Jones rushes from thought to thought as if he's just made sense of a baffling puzzle. Like Scrooge, who was transformed after his visit by the three ghosts of Christmas, Jones has just had a Yuletide revelation. This past Christmas, the 49-year-old Jones went to Santa Cruz to visit his 23- and 26-year-old daughters. While sitting on their back patio, enjoying the company of his daughters, he says, for the first time in his life he had a ''game plan'': It was time to put family before show biz. ''Seeing how my daughters had grown up so fast without me being much around made me realize that this is going to be my last show,'' says Jones. ''I've done my time, and I've done my work. I have a 6-year-old and a 13-year-old daughter from my second marriage in London, with whom I've spent a total of a year at most over the last six years. . . . I want to see their smiling faces and share my thoughts with them.'' There's something bittersweet about Jones' memories. Perhaps it's his tale of leaving home before his 14th birthday, just after his mother's death. Or maybe it's the fact that after years of loyalty to Columbia Pictures during the Monkees' heyday, he and fellow band members Peter Tork, Mickey Dolenz and Michael Nesmith weren't allowed back on the production lot once the series ended. Jones, who says he makes just $3,000 to $4,000 a year off the Monkees, recently asked Burt Schneider, who just sold the music rights of the group to Rhino Records, and ''The Monkees'' series producer Bob Rafelson if it might be possible to get a few more royalty percentage points before the deal was sealed. The answer, he says, was a resounding ''no.'' The experience left Jones, who was part of a group that had three No. 1 singles, feeling, as he put it, ''raped.'' A recent headline suggested that a Monkees 30-year-anniversary reunion, which would coincide with Rhino's re-release of the group's complete audio and video catalog, and a possible feature film starring the group are in the works. Don't count Jones in. ''Not unless the benefits increase 1,000 percent,'' says Jones. ''I won't be involved unless we're all equal partners -- all band members and the producers.'' What's most surprising about Jones, who will be replaced in ''Grease'' by Dolenz once the production moves from San Francisco, is how entirely exhausted he is with the grind of it all. ''After the show, I come back to this luxury apartment and I'm alone. It's ridiculous,'' says Jones. ''I don't want to sound downtrodden and lonely, I'm just very, very tired. I've finally discovered myself and it took all of this time.'' -- John Papageorge is a San Francisco free-lance writer